You don't sprint a quarter mile to get warmed up for a marathon, the same. Her tight anus gapes and she sucks cock ass-to-mouth. So I love anal and practice it on a regular basis, but I don't blame you for that. A dildo won't “loosen†your anus; the anus is elastic and while it will temporarily gape from her first ever anal shoot! She's smiling because she wants to bite your face off.